I spent the day yesterday in the hospital with a dear friend who was in labor.
I've heard people who assist with labor say things like....."I am so tired. I really felt like I was laboring with her." And my past thoughts were....Are you kidding? They didn't feel the pain or have to push a boulder through a garden hose!
But after yesterday, I totally understand! I needed a message after giving hours of lower back massages and letting her squeeze my hands 'till they turned blue and started tingling! Boy, did I sleep like a rock last night!
So, needless to say, my view has changed.
The gift of life is incredible and completely amazing. God bless all the parents and thoes that labor with them!
4 comments:
The baby is gorgeous, and you are such a great friend to be there for her. I've been in your place four times before and I totally know what you mean. The first three used pain meds and the fourth didn't. I thought she was crazy, but after it was all over, I realized how strong she is and had a whole new respect for her. Moms rock! -Tina
It is interesting how experience molds our perception of things. Bless God for another safe delivery! Mom : )
I have had the privilage to witness 2 births (outside of my own children of course). I think it is one of the most emotional and powerful experiences that there is! I totally understand what you're saying..you get so invested into it even when it's not your baby.
Amen!
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